I’m a Northerner. I’m Northern through and through, as some might say. I grew up in the Western Lake District and I have spent most of my life there, until I moved further down South to Manchester…..
I only recently ventured down South (London/Kingston Upon Thames) and it wasn’t because I don’t like Southerners or any other reason why I hadn’t been down South, it was only the fact I never really had a reason to go down.
I was blown away by the hustle and bustle of the busy bodies flitting around Victoria Station, I just felt so flustered. In particularly I HATED the tube, so many people rushing to jump onto the this rammed train, when there will be another one leaving in approximately 3 minutes. I just couldn’t understand what all the rushing was about?
Really dislike the tube. And rushing.
The funny thing is when I moved to Manchester my Auntie use to tell me how slow I was at everything that I was doing, but told me that in time I would adapt and I would become use to the speed and lifestyle in Manchester, but I never quite understood what she meant – as I felt like I was perfectly fine.
Going back home to the Lakes nowadays and I am constantly nagging my Sisters and my Mam to ‘hurry up’ and ‘get your skates on’ – they are so slow I feel like they are all stuck in slow motion. I really want to stick a rocket up there a$%*s! Everyone in Cumbria seems this way though, everyone is so laid back, not a care in the world. No rushing for anyone, plenty of time!
I think I am a quite open minded person, I love everyone as I am a people person. Love meeting new people and getting to know everything about them, regardless about where in the world they are from.
Recently I have become aware of how Southerners view us Northerners and I have noticed that this seems to be cemented by images they see across the media and television, and do you know what it’s really starting to infuriate me!
I never really believed much in this north/south divide. Coming from Cumbria and residing in Manchester for the past Five year I have never really felt it.
Spending a bit more time down South recently and I have noticed how Southern’s tend to make jokes about where I am from, how ‘shit’ the North is, and how they ‘would never move up there’ (even though, may I add, they have never actually been up here!) It has begun to anger me and make me really defensive about the North. I believe that the North is a beautiful place and despite it’s bad press and misrepresentation, it has a lot to offer.
Watching Bear Grylls The Mens Island this week and a class war seemed to break out between them. With one Northern gent in particular arguing that being from the North, you are brought up to do manual labour, and you grow up to do manly jobs and know how to make a living through ‘grafting’. He suggested that because one of the other camp mates was from down South, he was shying away from the manual work, taking on only the easy jobs because he’s never done a hard days graft in his life. He was suggesting that because this gent came from the South of England he wasn’t use to doing manual labour and was use to people doing things for him. The Northerner in question said the following during a heated discussion,
“Where I come from, we vote every four years for people who speak like you,” he said. “We put every last vestige of trust in that person, and then you dick on us every single time… so unfortunately, I can’t trust you.”
It seems to be dislike through association, viewing the Southerners accent as a marker of wealth and status – associating him with the likes of politicians.
I think it seems unfair to judge someone based on their accents. Yes, he may be well educated, and yes he may not have done much manual labour in his life, but he has still worked hard to gain a career. This is the first time I have ever witnessed first hand a Southerner getting singled out because of their Southern heritage. Normally I have witnessed it the other way round but to see this shocked me. I also noticed that once one of the Northerners said this, a few others also jumped on this band wagon, but maybe with not as much hostility.
The north of England always gets stick. We get shit documentaries made about us, to name a culprit ‘Benefit Street’ and if you have a look and see where other similar documentaries like this are filmed, bet you my bottom dollar it is the North (or the Valley’s, sorry Wales!) But I bet there is deprived areas of the South, why don’t they get any stick? And there is genuine reasons why some areas of the North are so deprived, but we need to stop being so small minded and painting everyone with the same brush.
At the end of the day regardless of our accents we are all still humans and deserve to be treat with the same amount of respect irrespective of where in the world we have been brought up. We wouldn’t dare discriminate against someone due to the colour of their skin nowadays, so why should be judge because of someone location or accent? It seems like we are going backwards to me.
Me, myself and I feel like that when I go down to London, people don’t tend to take me seriously because of my accent. I feel like this is always a point people like to take the piss out of, and guess what it is really grating on me. I want to scream ‘don’t undermine me because of my accent’ and maybe even stamp my feet a little bit. People don’t actually believe me when I list off my qualification and all that jazz, but why should I have to do that to be taken seriously?
The way that I feel when I leave the South makes me reluctant to going back as it’s draining having to prove my self worth and defend the whole of the North every time I make a visit.
The media and television programmes are too blame for this ever growing North/South divide and something needs to be done and this situation needs to be addressed before it get’s even more out of hand.
We are all the same and as one of the ladies on Benefit Street said the other day,
We all shit, piss and were born out of the same hole
So why aren’t we all treat equally? Nice little phrase, bet that one will stick with you.
A petition has even been made for the North of England to be part of Scotland!!!
More than 12,000 people have signed a petition demanding the north of England break away from the “London-centric south” and join a new Scotland.
The petition says the northern English cities “feel far greater affinity with their Scottish counterparts such as Glasgow and Edinburgh than with the ideologies of the London-centric south” and demands secession from the UK.
(The Guardian, 2015)
But my point is, this is out of hand now.
This make a change, change our attitude, get over this North/South divide and learn to love our Country as a whole.
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